She took 15-year-old Zach to the hospital that night. Zach, who was in respiratory distress, didn't leave the hospital for two months.
Zach was diagnosed with a degenerative muscle disease called ataxia-telangiectasia when he was 2 years old, which means that he is losing the ability to control his muscles as he gets older.
He came home from the hospital on Feb. 19, on a feeding tube and a breathing ventilator. But that Sunday, he was rushed to the hospital again with a fever.
"The hardest part is, his mind has never been altered," Steinhagen said. "He is happy-go-lucky. He loves to tell jokes."
In fact, she said, Zach often jokes with nurses at the hospital to take his mind off of what's happening.
Steinhagen — a single mom with three other children — is wondering what she's going to do about medical bills she can't pay and a teenage son she can't care for on her own anymore. She has two jobs, but hasn't been able to work since December because she's been with Zach at the hospital.
She used to carry Zach to an upstairs bathroom to bathe him. Now that he has a ventilator and a feeding tube, she can't do that anymore.
Zach's ventilator is attached to his wheelchair, meaning that the family needs an actual wheelchair-equipped van instead of the trailer they had been using to transport Zach's wheelchair.
Boy Scout Troop 747 is hoping to raise enough money to help Zach get these items:
- A handicap-accessible vehicle with a wheelchair lift
- Renovations to his home so it can accommodate medical equipment
- A new handicap-accessible bathroom on the ground floor
- An updated motorized wheelchair
He will also need round-the-clock nursing care.
Zach does have health insurance through his dad, Steinhagen said, and Medicaid. But it doesn't cover everything he needs.
To help out, Zach's Boy Scout troop is planning a fundraiser for the family.
Scott Shrock, the troop leader, said Zach's been a part of troop 747 since he was in third grade.
"When we first met Zach, he would get a cold and it would last for two or three weeks," Shrock remembered. "Now, he is getting a cold and his lungs are collapsing."
The other boys in the troop are used to Zach's health issues, Shrock said, but "this last time was unprecedented."
"The boys are a little affected by it this time," he said.
The troop's been as supportive as possible, even holding a meeting in Zach's hospital room when he was too sick to leave. Shrock said they will make sure Zach's able to participate in Boy Scouts for as long as he wants.
They've planned a spaghetti dinner for 1 to 5 p.m. March 30 at the Elkhart Moose Lodge, 1500 C.R. 6. Tickets are $8 for adults and $5 for children 12 and younger at the door. Advance tickets discounted by $1 are available by calling 574-206-0390.
There's also an account set up for Zach at Inova Federal Credit Union, 619 C.R. 6 E., Elkhart; and an online fundraiser at www.youcaring.com. Search for "Zachary Talley."