Across the sea...

For: Tim & Kristinjoy Taylor
Organizer: Kristinjoy
of $30,000 goal.
Raised by 54 donors
77% Complete

The Story

Hi friends and family!

Adoption has always captivated me. I remember a sermon years ago about our adoption into God's family, where I sat with streams of tears pouring down my face for the entirety of the service! Such unbearable beauty. I swoon over a God who is Father to the fatherless; a God who brings the lonely into families. In the past year, my heart began to overflow it's borders once again and we began the 'real' conversations about starting our family. God began to draw Tim's heart too, and we spent time asking the LORD how, when, where, who?! Through a series of prayers and events, we felt that China was the direction He was pointing. It simply seeded in our hearts and started to grow. We are open to the family God has prepared for us, whatever that looks like! 

So this is our beginning. The beginning of the journey. It's big and daunting and impossible without God. With that said, we are excited to see Him do the impossible as we move forward in faith! We don't know who our little one is yet, but we know that Jesus does. We also know that whatever special needs she has, Jesus is her Great Healer, and we look forward to seeing Him at work in her little life. We would so appreciate your prayers and support as you feel led by the Holy Spirit, and we look forward to this God-sized journey ahead!


Tim & Kristinjoy [and Beau]

Psalm 68
"Sing to God, sing in praise of his name,
extol him who rides on the clouds;
rejoice before him—his name is the Lord.
A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows,
is God in his holy dwelling. 
God sets the lonely in families...
Sing to God, you kingdoms of the earth,
sing praise to the Lord...

Fundraiser Updates

Posted on January 4, 2016 by Kristinjoy

Roaming through Target over Christmas, I veered to the toy aisle thinking about her. A plump gray bunny, softer than a cloud, joined my cart along with a Christmas book...another year of gifts that she is not here to open. And yes, I cried right then and there as I thumbed through the book in my cart. It was a story about Christmas just not feeling quite right. The author searches for something that she feels is missing, and then on the last page says, "And that's when I got it. That's when I knew! The thing that was missing from Christmas was you!" That page of the book remained opened on the lap of the gray bunny throughout Christmas. We miss her. We want to see her face. And we are ready for the waiting to be over. The good news is that we are close, and as far as the timelines go for China adoptions, we should be receiving a call very soon. We have to continue to remind ourselves that God's timing is not ours, and that He is Fathering both her and us as we wait. It's not easy, and we fluctuate in and out of trust, fear, faith, disappointment, and then back to trust again. It is clear that He is preparing us through this process, and testing our hearts as the days linger on. We pray for patience, endurance, and for His love to cast out all fear as we wait. We would love for you to join us in those prayers!

In the meantime, we decided to sell our condo and look for a place more conducive to a growing family. By God's grace and provision, our condo sold in no time and we found a house in a community that we love, with one extra room just for her. Our new little 50's house has tons of window light, and a tree-filled backyard with a beautiful view. It's so very peaceful; the perfect haven for a little one that will need space to heal and rest and know the love of the Father. Currently, we are staying with Tim's parents as we renovate parts of the new house and get it move-in ready.

As we continue to wait, prepare and pray, thank you for your continued support and interest throughout this last year and half! We love how present she is in the minds' of our community, always asking about her and if we have heard any news! What a great day it will be when we can say 'YES!' to your questions! I pray that moment will not tarry much longer. 

Love to you all and cheers to a new year! ~ Kristinjoy & Tim

Posted on June 27, 2015 by Kristinjoy

We visited Zoominations for the second time tonight, a Chinese Lantern festival at Lowry Park Zoo. It was quirky and beautiful :) My Dad bought two paper lanterns in honor of her, the little girl we are all waiting to meet. Along the winding paths of light, I spotted a little Asian baby completely zonked out in her mother's arms, and there went my heart along with tears rising like the tide. Those moments are continual proof to me that a miracle has taken place in my heart. I can see sweet babies any day of the week, and not be moved by anything other than their cuteness, but when I see the face that could resemble hers, something swells inside me. A love I can barely understand exists in my heart, and it surprises me every time. I know this love has been placed in me by the very Hands of God, and that realization is all the more surprising.

Thank you God for all the goodness that is in your heart toward mankind. Toward babies in institutions without families. May your Name be exalted in all the earth, for you are a Father to the Fatherless and a champion of widows. There is no one like you, Holy God! I bless your Name this midnight hour.


Posted on June 16, 2015 by Kristinjoy
Hello friends and family! It's been a while since I've posted un update, well, because there have been no updates! We are in the waiting stage of this adoption process, which means that life sounds a lot like the crickets I hear outside of my bedroom window right now. All of our paperwork is complete and sitting on a desk somewhere in China until we get matched. Once our place 'in line' [so to speak] matches with a little one, then the stack of paper starts moving again and we are back in the game! Until then, we wait. We pray. We prepare [inasmuch as we can]. And we hang on to the last days of life as we know it! The good news is that we are astonishingly close to the financial goal for this adoption, which is incredible! We have raised $22,000 of the $30,000 goal! Mind = blown. God has shown us His abundant provision through each and every one of you. Thank you, thank you. Forever, thank you! We will continue to keep you in the loop, but for now, when you hear crickets chirping in the evening, remember us in prayer as we she waits. Love and gratitude to you all. ~Kristinjoy

Posted on October 24, 2014 by Kristinjoy

We woke before the sun today to wait in line for our Federal level fingerprinting. To my delight, two Asian women fell in line behind us, speaking punctuated and lilting Mandarin. I listened with a sighing smile. Somehow, just hearing the language that might currently be whirling around her, wherever she might be, made me feel a small comfort and connection.

This was the last major step that we can accomplish on our end. The rest is up to God and Governments both near and far!

Sometimes, thinking about the wait, the unknown, her medical needs...can overwhelm us. We drift in and out of earth-moving faith and hide-under-a-rock fear! So, we have to constantly remind ourselves that we are adopting HIS daughter, and He is the Good Shepherd of her little soul. We are the conduit of His love, grace, and provision for her life. When the realities seem too big for little us, we have to stop and remember that the Risen Christ is much bigger. What is impossible with man, is possible with God.

Tim came back from the mailbox today, and in an unassuming envelope was an anonymous check that send us into orbit. We both just stood silently staring at that miracle piece of paper. I was left crying in the kitchen as the golden hour lit up our yellow walls. I felt the truth wash over me once again.
What is impossible with man is possible with God.

~ Kristinjoy

Posted on October 16, 2014 by Kristinjoy

Through our first Adoption Fundraiser [Karaoke and Chinese Take-out Night] we learned two significant things: first, we learned to never underestimate how crazy-fun our friends, family, and church family can be! Everyone came out in droves, depleeting our food reserve in the first hour! We thought we would safely overestimateby cooking for 150, but this was to be the first sign of the extravagance shown that night. Everyone joined in the fun - singing, sponsoring and cheering on mistake laden performances! It was a huge success, and we were moved beyond measure.

The second thing we learned was to never limit God. Our vision of what we 'might-possibly-but-let's-not-get-our-hopes-up' raise through the fundraiser was embarrassingly short of what God provided through all of you! Like, light-years away from our finite expectations. Over $6,000 was raised that night!!! A number that still leaves us staggering today. We also came home that night to an online donation here on the site for $1,000, furthering our incapacity to take in the depth of love and generosity that we were experiencing!

In Ephesians 3 it says, "Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever..." These words leap off the thin pages of my Bible and sink down from the head to the heart. In living, breathing, tangible ways I feel like I'm touching the truth of those words today. The truth that Jesus has done, is doing, and will do more than I can even formulate in my most daring request. My wildest imagination can't grasp His abundance and love. And the Karaoke and Chinese Food Night was a taste of the truth.

After the decorations were taken down, and the room cleared out, I wondered if somehow she might have felt us or heard us in her little spirit on the other side of the world that night. The sound of hundreds of her brothers and sisters laughing and singing to bring her home. The sound of an Extravagant God rejoicing over her with singing! May it be.

With a grateful and overflowing heart,
Tim & Kristinjoy

Posted on September 25, 2014 by Kristinjoy
A knock at the door. Beau goes bananas. So do we! Our Dossier is back from the Chinese consulate in Houston and ready for the country of her birth! We are waiting to do the same procedure for the home study [sending to the Secretary of State, then to the consulate] and THEN we will wave a final farewell to our ever-growing paper stack, leaving our future and our hearts, in China's hands.

Posted on September 8, 2014 by Kristinjoy
I stood at the end of our sidewalk, peeking through the leaves of our overgrown ficus. With a tangerine popcicle in hand, I nervously chomped down on the icy sweetness waiting for the mail truck to leave. Tim slipped passed me and speed-walked to the mailbox to retrieve the big white envelope. Walking back with eyes wide, we ran into the house and pulled out our Dossier fresh from the State! Each page with an official State stamp and ready for the Chinese Consulate in Texas! Every step is celebratory in our house, because every step is a little closer to finding her! ~Kristinjoy

Posted on August 8, 2014 by Kristinjoy

Walking Beau tonight, a stillness covered the street and felt as though the world had been muted. With silence all around, save a few frogs, I was lost in thought looking up at the fuzzy white moon. If she has been born, she sleeps under this same moon. I thought about how China feels so far away, so 'other', and yet we inhabit the same world. We sleep under the same exact moon. We are so very far, but so close at the same time.

When the distance feels far, I wonder about the cultural change for her coming to the United States, and part of me already aches at the thought that she will be removed from her spot in the world. I ache that she will have this big looming mystery in the background about her native land, her parents, her culture... But when I look up at that mutual moon, I can't help but feel the deeper reality that goes far beyond culture, race, gender and geography. The spiritual reality of life flows like white-water rushing passed the rocks and jagged edges of my hesitations and fears. That rushing confident water is the reality that this little one is ultimately and most truly, a spirit; a soul. And though her culture would have been different in China, her soul is no different than mine: in deep need of Love, and in dire need of a Savior. I long for that little soul to know that her Maker loves and cherishes her existence in this world. Though her journey will have started in Asia, my prayer is that her desination will be the same as mine...the same as those who have lived throughout a thousand generations and followed the same small, still Voice. One day, I believe all cultures and peoples of every kind will gather around the welcome table of the greatest Adoptive Parent of all, and Jesus will lift the glass as we enter our true family, forever. At that table will be people from every tribe and tongue, all coalescing into the same family...sitting at the same table. And I can see her sitting there.

If there were no spiritual reality to life, I would struggle with removing a child from their culture. But the truth is, we all have the same lineage. We *are* the human race. And by the grace of God, I believe that it is the work of Jesus, that Firstborn among creation, to continue to draw the human race back into the family we are intended to be. One family. Created people living under one fuzzy moon, and coming to know the One Love that set the world in motion in the first place.

Posted on July 24, 2014 by Kristinjoy
'What kindness she will find in his calm-water eyes'... these words came so simply sitting across the table from Tim over fish tacos last night, sun glowing through the window into his Florida-Keys eyes, filling mine with thankful tears. What a sweet father she has across the world waiting for her.

Posted on July 18, 2014 by Kristinjoy
By the grace of God, we have moved beyond the initial 'deer-in-headlights' shock of international adoption paperwork, and are actually starting to make some headway! The movement forward has pumped us full of adrenaline, caffeine, and a voice whispering ever so softly, 'this might actually be possible'. We are zipping around Tampa together, feeling short of breath and full of possibility, as we get background checks, fingerprints, write autobiographies, request birth and marriage certificates...and each place asks the reason for the visit, and we say 3 beautiful and crazy words: 'We. Are. Adopting.'

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