Posted on June 8, 2017
Posted on June 8, 2017Monika wanted me to pass this along to all of you that generously donated to this campaign. Together we raised over $10,400 to help her rest and heal through the summer during her chemo treatments. She told me the other day that she doesn't know what she would have done without this! So much gratitude to all of you!! ❤️
I want to send out a sincere THANK YOU to all the people that have reached out to help me through my fight with cancer. From those that have given to my fundraiser… friends, family, friends of family & friends, classmates, previous coworkers, neighbors, and even strangers! All the texts, emails, FB posts,
phone calls, cards, letters, gift baskets, food, flowers, and visits have melted my heart with your overwhelming support, encouragement, and kindness! Overwhelming to the point of tears… Thank you for all your positive thoughts and the constant prayers! All of you have helped strengthen my faith, hope, and drive to beat this!!!! My mother, sister, my love Nate, and bf Maria, have been with me through the worst of this battle. From long hours at the ER, to helping me with my household and taking care of my son, my mother driving me when I couldn’t to my appointments, helping me while suffering through high fevers, being my caretaker while I was bed ridden for 5 weeks; not being able to walk on my own- even just to use the bathroom, and needing help with bathing. You have seen me on some dark days, and have helped me survive through this, even on days when I wanted to give up.
I was completely blindsided with this devastating news. I felt great when I was diagnosed, and was in complete shock when I heard the word “cancer”. PLEASE, please get your annual physical, and be a strong advocate for your own health. If I wouldn’t have gone to the doctor, I still wouldn’t know now that I have this dreadful disease today.
I feel love for you all, and I’m so grateful you have touched my life!!! I still have my 2nd round of chemo to finish. I’ll be finished in August, but it will take a toll on my immune system again. Please keep praying and reaching out so I can win this fight! Your kindness will never be forgotten.
Posted on May 24, 2017
Posted on May 24, 2017Hi Everyone! Monika just finally got in to see her primary oncologist. My Mom was able to go with my sister to that appointment. This is the email update to me (and family and friends), from our Mom. I thought I would share what she wrote:
Just wanted to let you know the results of consulting with the oncologist on Monday. Monika will have four chemo treatments starting on June 6th and every three weeks after until the four are completed. She will have frequent blood draws during this process to determine if treatment can proceed. If not, her body will need more time to recover and she will try again the next week. She will experience hair loss and a compromised immune system. Any fever will need to be looked at for infection. It's possible that Monika could have a reaction to the drugs. If that happens, medication to counteract this will be given and the treatment will still continue. In the process, if it is determined that the course of treatment seems to be causing more harm than good, it will be stopped. Neuropathy (numbness and tingling to the fingers and toes) is a possible side effect. Monika will be watched closely for that as sometimes the condition is permanent. If that happens, the drug dose may be adjusted. There is also the chance of getting leukemia further down the road as a result of the chemo drugs and of course, other possible side effects.
The doctor said that this chemo regimen is all there is for the kind of cancer Monika has. He also said that the understanding today shows a benefit to this treatment but it is still being studied and not conclusive. That makes the decision to proceed more difficult. Monika said that by going ahead, she has done everything she can. She doesn't want to wonder down the road if she should have done this.
On a happier note, it has been good to see Monika looking well on the outside and able to do some things. We went to an appointment last week to look at wigs. She'll get a free one. It was a fun visit and there are many cute wigs to pick from. Today, she'll go back for the final selection. The woman was ordering a couple more in different colors of the two styles that Monika narrowed it down to. She was given some cute lightweight hats which will be great for summer. Ryan (this is our brother, for those that don't know) is gearing up for shaving his head in solidarity. What a brother!
Once again, thank you for your kindness and generosity to Monika. It allows her to just concentrate on getting well. We are eternally grateful. ❤️
Love you all,
Arlene & Randy (our Mom and Dad)
Posted on May 12, 2017
Posted on May 12, 2017Hello Everyone-
Today marks just 3 weeks left to help spread the word about this fundraiser. I am asking that if y'all would be so kind as to share this to your Facebook pages, it would be much appreciated. It helps to say something on the "share" like "this is my friend" or "this is my friend's sister". Monika had her first treatment follow up with her radiologist yesterday, and it was good news! The doctor said she has responded well to her treatment thus far and her tumor has shrunk! We are all so happy to hear this news. :)
Near the end of May, Monika will meet with her primary oncologist and get more details regarding the second round of treatment which will begin around that time. The second round of chemo will be stronger than the last one, and since Monika was so ill the first time we are all concerned as to how that will go. For now, though, we are all happy that she gets a few more weeks of healing and rest before that has to happen. We have missed seeing her laugh and smile. My sister has a damn fine sense of humor too.
Monika will lose her hair with the second chemo treatment, something she is trying to mentally prepare herself for. If you know my Sis, you know that this part is going to be really hard for her. It is
much easier to hide being ill, when it doesn't look so obvious on the outside. My sister will look adorable bald, I am thinking Demi Moore in GI Jane. She has a beautiful face, so she is going to rock her new "do".
Please keep Monika and our family in your thoughts and prayers. We can feel all the LOVE and are so incredibly grateful for all your kind words, donations, hugs, texts, phone calls, and visits.