Brian was a creative and passionate artist. Looking through his photos you can see a visual time line of his life; from his first black and white photos, to his first rounds of chemo, to eventually marrying his best friend, Ashley. Brian documented everything through the lens of his Nikon DSLR and on many occasions encouraged me to help document his battle with Osteosarcoma. In regards to his personal struggle with cancer, Brian was an open book, and an inspirational one at that.
Like you always said, cancer took your leg, but it couldn't take your spirit!
When it all began...
In 2009, on the day of his 19th birthday, Brian was diagnosed with Osteosarcoma; an aggressive form of bone cancer. Soon after his diagnosis, It was decided that the best way to remove the cancer, was to amputate his right leg. The amputation took place in November of 2009 and was followed by many long months of aggressive chemotherapy. Finally, by March of 2010, Brian was declared cancer-free and it was the best news possible; a true sign that he could continue on with his life and pursue a degree in the arts.
Almost two years passed, and by looking at Brian you would never know what he went though if it weren't for his ...clunky prosthetic leg which, like everything in Brian's life, he embraced it's existence and denied it the victory of ever slowing him down.
It wasn't until Christmas 2011 that Brian, at age twenty-one, faced the reality of his cancer's recurrence, this time it had metastasized to his lungs. More chemo and invasive surgeries followed. Like the time before, Brian's cancer was believed to be in remission after his treatments, but by 2012 it reentered his life; and again it happened on Christmas.
On February 7th, 2013, Brian spent ten hours on a surgical table and in that time the doctor's removed fifteen cancerous tumors. They Argon laser-ed his chest, and treated him with a chemical wash for good measure. Brian then spent nine long days in the hospital.
Fast forward to a happier time, August 6th, 2013 when Brian officially made his best friend Ashley, his wife. An intimate ceremony was held and the joy felt on that day made any problems seem far away, but life has a way of continuously testing one's strength and the months to follow were a true test.
The legions had returned and he was given a multitude of treatments and chemo drugs, but by September of 2013 Brian's kidneys were failing... and he was forced to spend many days on kidney dialysis. After stabilizing, He was able to return home.
January 9th, 2014 was the day that Brian's remaining options became clear, there was little left to be done other than live the rest of his life out in comfort. He was given weeks- months with just cancer alone, but with added kidney failure his time was even more limited.
February 7th, 2014 was the beginning of hopsice care. “Brian's pain is better managed and he seems comfortable. Now I am just trying to spend as much time with him as possible and enjoy his company while I can”, Ashley writes.
Sadly, after his five year battle with Osteosarcoma, Brian passed away on February 21, 2014 at the age of 23.
In Memory of...
Brian's strength and resilience were immediately apparent to anyone who had the pleasure of meeting him. While many would allow such a destructive disease to cripple their last days on earth, Brian fulfilled as many of his dreams as possible and continued to share his love with family and friends.
We've established this fundraiser in Brian's name to help cover some of the medical related debt that accrued during his treatments and we would also like to honor Brian by having a gallery showing featuring his photography work and to establish a photography education grant in his name!
To view Brian's photography work- https://www.facebook.com/pages/Brian-James-Ellis-Photography