Help Fight for Idan

For: Idan Zablocki
Organizer: Amanda and Akiva Zablocki
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The Story

*** We are updating daily with updaes from tranplant. ***

** In The News **

Idan's story has been recently featured again in the New York Daily News, as well as in the Jewish Daily Forward and the Huffington Post.  Idan’s story has also been featured on ABC Eyewitness newsNBC 4CBS news, the New York Daily News, and most recently in an op-ed in The Times of Israel. As a result of this media coverage, hundreds of people have visited Idan’s page and made a donation, and shared our story, and several people contacted us who are dealing with similar challenges to show their support.  

Remmber to follow us on Facebookand on our new blog: Idan My Hero!



How we got here: Idan's Story

Last July, we stood in front of a crowded room and introduced our baby boy to the world.  We spoke of the long journey that we took to get to this moment in our lives.  Akiva's quest to find a brain surgeon willing to and capable of operating on his brain stem to remove a tumor threatening his life, and unleashing the superhero within.  Amanda's pursuit of her childhood dreams.  Our love story.  And now, Idan.  A child born to parents who could not be more grateful, more blessed, more thrilled to begin this new journey as a family.  Hence Idan's name.  Idan is Hebrew for "time," or "era."  We knew our little guy would be unusually strong, and we wanted him to have an equally strong name.  What could be stronger and more precious than time? 

Nearly a year later, Idan has proved us right.  He is precious, uniquely strong, extremely brave, and has began his own journey. Idan has been diagnosed with a very rare and life-threatening immune deficiency disorder that affects only 2 in 1,000,000 people.  This is his story, and how you can help. 

In April, Idan started breathing very quickly.  There were no other symptoms to cause alarm.  He played, ate, and seemed perfectly normal, except for his respiratory rate. We went back and forth to the doctor, everyone believing it was a sneaky virus that would take its course and go away.  When two weeks passed and Idan began looking fatigued, we took him back to the pediatrician for a second x-ray.  We were rushed to the hospital, and Idan was taken to the pediatric ICU to be given oxygen.  He was hospitalized for several days before we found out the culprit, a very rare form of pneumonia caused by the most common of fungus that lives in nearly all of us - PCP.  It wreaked havoc on his baby lungs, and he had to be placed on a ventilator for 13 days to help him breathe.  The doctors busily ran tests to determine why he developed PCP, a condition that usually affects those without an immune system.  But he was our healthy 8 month old boy, right?

We soon discovered he had a severe immune deficiency, which made him uniquely susceptible to this aggressive fungus that threatened to take his life.  We stood by his bedside, for 21 days, wearing gowns, masks and gloves, unable to hold, kiss, or even touch him.  Despite all that, and despite tubes invading every inch of his body, Idan courageously found strength to smile, even to laugh.  We stood by his bed and read to him, sang to him, danced for him, and deep down, we knew that he was the one comforting us the entire time.  His smiles and intuitive stares, ones which belonged to a much older adult, not a child, told us he was strong and going to survive the PCP and conquer his immune deficiency.  After three excruciatingly long weeks, Idan's lungs finally recovered.  He regained his strength and was discharged from the hospital.  

Idan came home and resumed many of his normal routines, and you would never know he spent weeks in the hospital fighting for his life.  But after Idan was discharged from the hospital, we faced a new challenge - diagnosing the underlying problem with his immune system that made him uniquely susceptible to the fungus that causes PCP.  It was not long before Idan was diagnosed with Hyper IgM, an extremely rare and life-threatening genetic primary immune deficiency disorder where the immune system fails to fight against even the most harmless of germs - hence the PCP.  We have no family history of the disease and never saw it coming.  

Today, we are treating Idan's Hyper IgM with regular weekly infusions of immunoglobulin replacement therapy and antibiotics to prevent reoccurrences of the PCP.  This will protect him from the majority of infections, bacteria and viruses, but cannot protect him against everything.  To date, most individuals with Hyper IgM have not survived past their third decade of life, and are often plagued with recurrent infections and high incidence of cancer.  We are hopeful, however, that the medical advancements made in the last ten years with stem cell transplantation in children with Hyper IgM will allow Idan to live a normal healthy life.  When his lungs have fully healed, Idan will need a stem cell transplant, which, though it comes with its own set of risks and challenges, is the only known cure.  Thankfully, we have already found a donor who is a perfect match.

How You Can Help

We need your help raising funds to enable us to make sure that, no matter what happens to us, Idan has the best possible medical care, a successful transplant, and enough funds to cover the medical costs he will incur along the way.  This will help to pay for Idan's hospitalization for the PCP, extensive genetic testing, weekly infusions of immunoglobulin, frequent trips to the pediatrician, immunologist, pulmonologist, and transplant team, as well as the cost of a stem cell transplant and future hospitalization.   We know we cannot do this alone, and, to that end, we have set up this fundraising page for Idan. 

Please post, send to your family and friends, and share liberally.  We appreciate any and all support that you can provide.  Please note that any gifts to Idan are not tax deductible. If you would like to pray for Idan, his full hebrew name is Idan Yarden Ben Esther.

We will literally go to the ends of the earth to find the best medical care for Idan. This disorder is so rare that there are only a few doctors around the world that have even encountered it, let alone know how to treat it effectively.  We are hopeful that, with your help, Idan will have access to these experts and will be cured.

Thank you,

Amanda, Akiva & Idan

Fundraiser Updates

Posted on October 21, 2013

Posted on October 21, 2013

Most of our updates on our our blog: See them all there. Hear is the last one from today: 


Day -3: New Mantra => One more good day = One less bad day.

by Amanda• October 20, 2013• 0 Comments

Anyone who knows me knows that I am a highly rational person.  Learning how things work, understanding processes, problem solving; these are my coping mechanisms.  But there’s a small part of me (inside all of us perhaps) that still believes – or is afraid not to believe – in jinxes, bad luck, superstition, and all that jazz.  The part of me that waits for the other shoe to drop.  I’ll give you an example.  One day, on my way home from work about seven months ago, I stepped off the subway and saw the sunset straight ahead.  In that moment (and I remember it clearly), I felt like I was the luckiest woman in the world.  I was enjoying my work and planning a huge event for the women’s group about issues immensely important to me and my female colleagues.  Better yet, I got to return home every night to my beautiful baby boy and darling husband who I love with all my heart.  But in the midst of that thought, before I even had time to enjoy it, I gulped and feared when the other shoe would drop.  And in April, only a couple weeks later, my beautiful baby boy was rushed to the hospital, and so began our journey.  I have thought back to that moment, where I thought I had it all, many many times since then.  Did I jinx myself by being happy and believing us to have it all?

Last night, my father said something to me that changed my entire perspective.  Idan has been feeling very well compared to your average chemo patient.  He has been energetic and happy, drawing with crayons for the first time, decorating his crib with stickers (really, I kid you not), and giggling like a maniac when we act silly with him.  And last night, I felt that fear again – when is the other shoe going to drop?  But, as though reading my mind, my father said to me, “I am so glad Idan has been through four days of chemo, and is still feeling great.  Every day he feels good is one day less that he has to suffer from all this.”  And suddenly it all clicked.  Every day he feels well is a blessing, no matter what tomorrow brings.

And of course, last night Idan did have a terrible night, inconsolably crying, and barely getting any sleep.  He received his first dose of morphine to help with pain.  But I for one am feeling thankful that it took this long, and glad that no matter what tomorrow brings, Idan had at least four less days of feeling bad.

Posted on October 7, 2013

Posted on October 7, 2013

Update from Seattle

Thank you for being Idan's army!

Hello Idan’s army,

Greetings from Seattle!  We just finished our second week of pre-transplant testing here and things are going well. We wanted to thank you all again for the endless support and encouragement, and for helping us get Idan to Seattle. We have been keeping the blog updated with our day-to-day activities and posting pictures on Facebook. In case you missed any, we will have highlights below.

Many of you have asked for our address and we finally have one to share with you. We will move into an apartment about a mile from the hospital. We have Akiva’s childhood friend from Israel to thank for this arrangement, as he just moved into that complex as well and arranged for us to sign a lease for the next few months. Our new address is 6367 NE Radford Dr #4012 Seattle, WA 98115.

Idan will likely be admitted to the hospital on October 15th, and discharged some time in December or so.  Once he is discharged, he will still need to be in complete isolation and home-bound for the next couple months until it is safe for him to travel back to New York.  During this time of isolation for Idan, we hope to create for him an IdaniWonderland in his play room. We would love your ideas on how to keep a then-17 month old entertained, physically active, and happy to be indoors. We have created an Amazon Wish list of some fun activity toys we are thinking of and would love suggestions!  

This week, the social worker at the hospital asked us how we coped with everything we are going through. First, we said that Idan makes it all so easy with his positive attitude and joy. But, importantly, we added that all the support and encouragement we are getting from #TeamIdan has kept us strong. Once again, we cannot thank you all enough for everything you have done for us in the past few months. From helping us fundraise, to running toy drives, to sending books, gift cards, and warm wishes, you have made this journey much easier on our family, and kept us going. Thank you.

Lastly, for those who missed it, here are some recent posts on our blog,

Countdown to transplant - our first day of tests

Countdown to transplant... Day 2 of testing

Day 3 of pre-transplant testing - painful

Hospital waiting rooms

Week 2 of Pre-transplant Testing - No, we're not done yet.

Posted on September 20, 2013

Posted on September 20, 2013


Update – We found a flight! Thank you for all your support!

by [email protected]• September 18, 2013• 0 Comments


Great news!!! We are literally floored. After 48 hours of frantically searching for a private jet to fly out to Seattle, sharing our plight with nearly 25,000 people, hundreds of which were sharing with their contacts and hunting down leads, we have a flight! A very generous wonderful man has offered to fly us all back in his private jet as he returns to the west coast from New York City tomorrow night. We are overjoyed and extremely humbled by the outpouring of support, and the way you all mobilized so quickly to help Idan. He is quite a special boy and you all played a part in helping to save his life this week. THANK YOU from the bottom of our hearts!!!

Posted on September 18, 2013

Posted on September 18, 2013


Idan needs your help flying to Seattle

Looking for a Private Jet to fly out to Seattle Having exhausted all other options, we are turning to you for help!

Idan needs your help getting to Seattle! Anyone have access to a private jet or know anyone that does? We were supposed to fly through Corporate Angels to Seattle because of his severe immune deficiency, but that fell through. Our first appointment in Seattle is September 24th (Tuesday). The owner of the Jet would be able to donate the flight through Corporate Angels for a tax deductible.

Commercial flights pose tremendous risk to Idan because of his severe immune deficiency. Between the dense crowds at the airport and sitting on a plane with dozens of strangers, commercial flights are well-known for germs. Idan’s too little to keep a mask on, and even that cannot protect him from all the germs. We’ve looked into all the non-profit options for flying by jet, and they either do not have any flights available in the next few days, or would require us making several pit-stops along the way.

Thanks in advance for your help!

~Amanda, Akiva & Idan

Posted on September 18, 2013

Posted on September 18, 2013

Last call for Idan-Do's! Here's a sneak peak at what you all helped to create for Idan's hospital room. If you'd like to participate, post a pic by Thursday and make sure to tag Help Fight for Idanso we know to include it! Instructions below.

Posted on September 4, 2013

Posted on September 4, 2013

Shana Tova U'Metuka

Thank you for being Idan's army!

Dear Team Idan,

We wanted to share with you some good news.  Seattle called us this afternoon to let us know that they have confirmed the donors and will be scheduling Idan’s transplant very soon.  We should be leaving for Seattle within the next few weeks!  While we are very excited to get Idan on the road to a cure, we also of course very anxious as the time for transplant is soon upon us.

This Wednesday night, we will be celebrating the Jewish New Year.  On Rosh Hashanah, Jews around the world pray that their loved ones be written into the book of life, and have a sweet and good year.  We will be praying for all these things and more for our little Idani, and hope that by this time next year he will be completely cured.  For those who would like to pray for Idan, his Hebrew name is Idan Yarden ben Esther. 

We wish you all a sweet and happy new year.


Akiva, Amanda & Idan

P.S. Don't forget to follow us on Facebook!  Our Help Fight for Idan page surpassed 1,000 fans today.  Thank you all for your support!

Posted on August 28, 2013

Posted on August 28, 2013

Seattle Update and the Idan-Do Mohawk Campaign

Thank you for being Idan's army!

Dear Team Idan,
Thank you for your continued support of Idan's fight for a cure.  Over the last few months, over 1300 have donated to Idan's causeand thousands more have shared his story with their friends and networks.  Idan's story has been covered by many news outlets and has reached millions of people worldwide.  Your kind words of encouragement, your support and your prayers have allowed us to face this challenge knowing that we have an army behind us.  We are forever indebted to you.
Here are a few updates on what has been going on with our son:
The Idan-Do Mohawk Campaign:
Before Idan loses his hair to chemo, we wanted to give him something to remember his signature style by (and remind him of all the people cheering him on) while he undergoes his bone marrow transplant.  So we started the Idan-Do Mohawk Campaign, where people can post pictures of themselves, their childrenpets, or even stuffed animals, sporting Idan’s signature hairdo, the Mohawk.  We are creating a large poster for Idan’s hospital room, a piece of which is included above, so that he has a constant reminder that he has an entire army behind him helping him through this difficult time. 
Dozens of people have joined in the effort to raise awareness for Help Fight for Idan by sharing a photos sporting Idan's signature hairdo. You can join in on the fun as well.  The instructions are available at here for those of you who are on Facebook, and for those who do not have Facebook, you can email us a photo at [email protected]and we will be sure to include it!
Transplant update:
After a few very challenging weeks dealing with insurance-related issues that threatened to throw us completely off track, it seems that we are finally moving forward again. Yesterday, we received the good news that the insurance company finally determined that Seattle’s treatment protocol is medically necessary and has given the hospital the approval to move ahead with identifying the donor.  We hope to have a date for the transplant within the next few weeks.  In addition, the insurance company is working very hard to arrange for additional coverage for Idan to help fill some of the substantial gaps in coverage that exist under our current plan.  They informed us yesterday they are making significant progress, and we pray that it all works out!  So, after losing 10 years of our life to the stress and even fearing for a while that the whole transplant might not be covered, things are starting to look much better.  If all goes well, we are back to our original goal of $250,000, which was based on the assumption that the transplant would be covered, rather than the incredibly daunting figure that we thought we might be looking at last week.
We do not know how we would have gotten through the last few months, kept our resolve and kept fighting for Idan to get the treatment he so desperately needs without all of you.  When our legs are about to give out from underneath us, you have been the arms that have held us tall.  Thank you for giving us the strength to go on fighting.  As we now move toward transplant, our family will need all the strength we can get in the months to come.
Yours truly,
Amanda, Akiva and Idan

P.S. Don't forget to follow us on Facebookfor more updates and cute pictures of Idan.  

Posted on August 10, 2013

Posted on August 10, 2013

** Update 08/10/2013**

We wanted to thank all the donors to Idan's fundraiser. On Thursday, we surpassed 1000 supporters and Idan's army is growing every day. Much thanks to Beth Stebner, Anne Cohen, and Tova Ross for writing articles in the in the New York Daily NewsJewish Daily Forwardand the Huffington Post. We still do not have a date for transplant yet, but we hope to heading out to Seattle towards the end of September. Make sure to Likethe Help Fight for Idan Facebook Pagefor more updates on Idan and our preparations for transplant. 

Posted on August 3, 2013

Posted on August 3, 2013

After 3 months of exhaustive research, the choice is clear.  Seattle, here we come!

Dear friends, family, and supporters of Idan,

Three months ago, when Idan was diagnosed with an extremely rare immune deficiency, we decided that nothing would stop us in our search for a cure. We sought out and consulted every Hyper IGM expert and transplant center that might have experience treating this terrible genetic disorder, and today we can happily announce we have found that place, and hope to be moving forward with transplant in September.  

Like his father had done before him,we created a Team Idan, and read and gathered any piece of published data on Hyper IGM. We consulted and/or visited dozens of experts in the US, Israel, Canada, and Europe, including doctors in New York, Boston, Durham NC, Cincinnati, Philadelphia, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Texas, Chicago, and Seattle, as well as the National Institute of Health, Toronto, the U.K., and Israel.   We spoke to patients from Florida, Utah, Illinois, New Jersey, and England.  We dove deep into the science behind the immune system, and learned the names of a dozen chemotherapy drugs, immunosuppressants and steroids as well as their side affects and toxicity levels.  We have become what they call “e-patients,”determined to be fully engaged in Idan’s treatment and cure. But in the end, we heard over and over again, both from doctors and from other patients, we should go with our gut. After all the research was done, after every rock was unturned, we should go with the centers and doctors we trusted the most. That center is Seattle Children’s Hospital.

Of course, the first and main reason we chose Seattle is that they have the expertise to transplant and cure Idan, boasting lower risks of death, long-term complications, and toxicity from the chemo. As we have mentioned before, there are three categories of "fatal" complications in a bone marrow transplant:  (1) complications from the chemo; (2) infections; and (3) graft versus host disease.  Each hospital has a different approach to managing it, but we've found that there is one drug that is being used only in Seattle that can substantially reduce all three of these risks here.  This drug is called Treosulfan.  This drug is widely used in Europe and Asia, but has yet to get FDA approval in the United States.  Seattle was using the drug as part of a clinical trial several years ago, and has been granted an IND to continue using the drug.  The rest of the hospitals use a drug called Busulfan that carries significantly more risks of short term and long-term side complications (including sterility), and yet Treosulfan is equally capable of wiping out the immune system to allow for full engraftment.

To add to this, the bone marrow transplant was actually invented in Seattleand the lab that our immunologist runs there was the first to discover Hyper IGM; they are without a doubt both pioneers and leaders in this field. The transplant floor is brand new, built last year by the Gates family, and is clean and high-tech. If we have to live in a hospital 24/7 for 4-6 months, this new facility is a huge plus. Lastly, we truly loved the doctors and nursing staff and the rest of the friendly people we met at the center. We have been getting good vibes from Seattle for a couple of months now, and turns out that was the gut feeling we were waiting for.

It is still going to be an uphill battle. Even before Idan starts the chemo to make room in his bone marrow for the donor transplant, we are dealing with dire financial issues that no one in our situation should ever have to deal with. The estimate we have received from the hospital for the transplant is between $600,000 and $1,000,000. They, like other centers, gave us information about fundraising, like contacting local communities and having a bake sale. Our insurance plan will likely only pay about half of this, and rest will be on us. And to add to this, we both have to move away for 6 months and take an unpaid leave, while paying out of pocket for the health plan through COBRA and probably purchasing a second plan.

This is where you come in. We cannot thank you enough for your help and support in the past few months. We never would have had the strength necessary to find the right doctor and hospital for Idan if not for the constant support and encouragement we have received from our family, friends, and strangers worldwide.  We have raised more funds then we ever thought possible, but we are still less then half way to our goal. We hope we can once again call on you to help spread the word about Idan. We have seen amazing responses every time Idan’s story goes out to a community, synagogue or church listserve. We have seen great responses every time someone writesan articlein a local paper. And we have seen amazing responses when you shared our story to your email contacts, or on social media. Please continue to share our story and help us cure our son.

Last night, there was a moment when we felt it was all for nothing – that all of our consultations, trips, and hours spent into the night researching conditioning protocols, complications, and long term risks, would be totally derailed by an inability to afford the care our son so desperately needs.  And in that moment, we felt utterly defeated.  This morning, after scrolling down and seeing the thousands of wishes and prayers and words of encouragement on Idan’s fundraisingand Facebook page, we know we can face this challenge too.

With much gratitude,

Akiva, Amanda and Idan

P.S. Don’t forget to follow us on Facebookfor more updates and cute pictures and videos of Idan.

Posted on July 17, 2013

Posted on July 17, 2013

If you're going into battle, it helps to have an army behind you.  Thank you for being Idan's army!

Dear friends, family, and supporters of Idan,

Thank you so much for your continuing support.  You have given our family so much strength and hope.  Since sharing Idan’s story with the world, hundreds of people have rallied behind him, cheering him on.  You are all connected to him now, and we will be forever grateful.

In addition to our fundraising page, we have now set up a Facebookpage called Help Fight For Idan.We update this page frequently with more details and pictures of Idan’s adventure.

A few quick updates on our hunt for a cure:

So far we have visited doctors in New York, Durham NC, and Boston.  We have consulted and will be visiting in the coming weeks with doctors in Philadelphia, Cincinnati and Seattle, and we have received opinions from dozens of doctors in the US and abroad, including from the UK, Canada, and Israel.   We hope to make a decision by the end of July on the best place for Idan’s transplant. 

Idan’s story has been featured on ABC Eyewitness newsNBC 4, and CBS news, as well as the New York Daily News.  Look out at the end of the month for Idan’s cameo in a special on NY1 about the Affordable Care Act as well.  As a result of this media coverage, hundreds of people have visited Idan’s page and made a donation, and shared our story, and several people contacted us who are dealing with similar challenges to show their support. 

Please continue to shareour story and news convergewith your communities and friends. We thank you for your support, prayers and thoughts.


Akiva, Amanda & Idan

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