Beat Cancer Baby

For: Maximillion McMichael
Organizer: Max's friends and family
$24,178
of $50,000 goal.
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The Story

On a Friday, Max's mom was laid-off. The next day Max was at the park with his 3 siblings and had a catastrophic accident when he darted in front of his big sister while she was swinging and suffered massive internal bleeding. He was taken to Northwest Hospital, but was transported to Children's Memorial Hermann due to the massive trauma. For three days it wasn't certain he would make it out of the hospital. Suddenly he stabilized and was sent home for a few weeks so the internal bleeding could clear out a bit and they could get a better picture of how damaged the kidney was. It seemed absurd that a playground accident could be this catastrophic. 

Three weeks later, the CT scan revealed that what they had thought was internal bleeding was actually a massive tumor.. and it had grown. Max's parents were told the next day that Max had cancer and that he needed surgery immediately. It was devastating. 

Also, Max's insurance was running out because the family only had 30 days from the layoff.  

The next week, Max's kidney/tumor removal was successful and after a few more days he was sent home. His parents were told by the hospital financial department that their bill was already $100,000.  There was still 5 months of chemo to go. 

Max started his first chemo this week (March 18th), the day after his third birthday.  He's handling it like a little warrior. It's going to be a long road and it's going to get harder as his immunity becomes weaker and weaker. 

Your help is enormously appreciated. You can keep up with Max's journey through his parents' facebook pages or through http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/supermax.

Thanks so much for your support!

Fundraiser Updates

Posted on September 17, 2013

Posted on September 17, 2013

I'm not sure who keeps up with Max from here and who keeps up with Max from the Caringbridge site.  If you're keeping tabs from this site, I'm sending you over to the caringbridge site where I blog on Max's journey.  

Thanks so much for your support and prayers.  We are so grateful to you.

Much love,

Heather, Kelly, Alex, Austin, Supermax and Jameson Duke McMichael

Update is here:http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/supermax/journal

Posted on August 26, 2013

Posted on August 26, 2013

Honestly, I didn't think I'd be writing another update. 
I thought we'd fade off into the sunset and people would wonder what happened to Max as he jumped and played in his cancer-free new chapter. 

Last Tuesday was supposed to be our "exit exam".  We'd spent a very long day the week before getting images of his mid-section as a baseline for the next 5 years of watching for lumps and dots to show up.  So far all the images had come up clear.  I'd planned a big family celebration at the downtown aquarium for all 6 of us to end this chapter. 

So when the doctor said, "Well... everything was mostly good..." I knew what was coming.  She said they'd found a 2 mm nodule in his lung.  She said she wasn't worried about it.  We'd continue with the plans to remove his port next week and we're not moving up his next CT scan 3 months from now.  If she was worried, she'd keep the port in and we'd do the CT scan in 6 weeks. Well... I feel better. Thanks!

Actually, I just burst into tears.  She was supposed to give us 100% clear news and slap us on the butt on our way out saying, "Get out of here you crazy kids!" She was raining on my parade. And now we had to wait 3 more months to see if this nodule grew.  If it does grow... we start all over. 

We.  Start.  All.  Over.

To make things just a little worse, we got some really good news in a really bad way.  A social worker was also in the room.  She tells us (after the doctor leaves us) that "Max qualifies for Make-a-wish!"  I know you're thinking, "What in the world is so bad about that?!"  I can't really explain it.  It just really made me more sad that my son "qualified" for Make-a-wish.  It means he's really sick.   It means he paid for it with months of tears and shots and barfs and being more brave than any of us. "You can go anywhere, do anything!", she says, "except ask for a house or a car."  We could go to Italy.  We could go to the Olympics.  The whole family.  It's like winning a grand prize!  Until you realize how much Max had to pay.  He literally gave up a kidney for this.  Does it make sense that this amazing gift makes me so sad?  I guess it would have been better if they said, "Make-a-wish would like to help him out" or something like that.  To say he "qualified" just really put a sting on it.

Needless to say, we're pretty sure Max is Disney-bound.  Apparently Make-a-wish kids don't have to wait in line. We'll get a lot of ugly looks from weary line-waiters. Should be fun! ;-)  

So two things:
1) Please remember when you see kids cut in front of you at Disney that they may have paid a heavy price to piss you off.  

and 2) For all the people who have supported and prayed for Max, we've made a T-shirt.  They're $20.  We get a small portion, so it's not as good of a fundraiser as THIS site. Mostly, we just wanted to see how many people we could get to walk around with "Beat Cancer Baby" on their back.

So if you would be so kind, please show your support with a donation on this site or by getting a t-shirt here:http://www.booster.com/supermax

T
hanks for your continued support and prayers.  We are so grateful to you.

Love,

Kelly, Heather, SuperMax, Alex, Austin, and Jameson Duke. 

Posted on April 7, 2013

Posted on April 7, 2013

This last week, I've been wading through all the literature for support groups that the hospital provides. One gorup helps with the $12+ a day for parking.  One group runs a camp for cancer kids and their families in the summer so they can get away from it for a week. One group meets once a week to just meet with other parents and vent. There's a group that goes room to room on the cancer floor asking parents if they need any groceries because you'd be amazed how often a parent is caught unprepared when their child is admitted and didn't bring any toiletries or extra clothes.  I was one of those people.  I was there for three days straight, in the same clothes, afraid to even leave for a cup of coffee and have Max wake up alone. When a lady with a grocery cart walked by and offered a toothbrush and toothpaste and a brush, I was enormously grateful. There are times when you just can't be prepared. If one of those times is when your child is raced to the hospital, it's probably the worst week of your life. 

Cancer is expensive. It stabs your bank account from a thousand directions. Parking, gas, oncologist, surgeon, anesthesiologist (Max's guardian angel - priceless), and don't forget the room is over $2000 a day. Do you know what kind of palatial accommodations  you can get in Vegas for $2000 a night? I wouldn't be fantasizing about toothpaste, I can tell you that! For $2000 a night, Dr. Oz should be stopping by each day with some awesome greek reed-grass toothbrush that prevents aging. 

We need your help.  We're a one-income family now and Kelly is killing himself scrambling to compensate. 

But more than that, if you don't contribute today or any other day to Max's fund, please look into the amazing programs for cancer families. Ronald McDonald house needs things like tuna and tuna kits, cup o' soups, snack packs, pop tarts, post-it notes, postage stamps, hand soap dispensers, toiletries, paper towels, ziplock bags, can openers... easy things to pick up and drop off at the hospital that would mean the world to a stressed out parent.  You can go to the Houston website at rmhhouston.org, or if you're outside of Houston, just google Ronald McDonald House.

Candelighters offer programs where you can adopt a family during the holidays. We're not just talking about families who are broke.  When you get blindsided with cancer, you don't have time to do normal things.  How do you leave your child at the hospital to go to Toys R Us for Christmas presents? You can help.  You can adopt a family and help give them a holiday.  We almost missed Easter completely this year because we were just too exhausted to decorate eggs and assemble baskets and buy Easter clothes.  If it wasn't for Kelly's family, Max wouldn't have hunted for a single egg. Can you imagine if a family was too exhausted for Christmas? You can look them up at www.candle.org

I could give you a long list of awesome groups like this, and if you want to know more, email me at [email protected] and I'll connect you to some amazing people.

Or you could just take a day and go to the surgery waiting room and pray with the single mother who has no friends or family and just handed her baby over to a surgeon and is quietly sobbing alone. 

Or you could visit the chemo floor or even the surgery floor and get to know some parents to see if they need a ride to Target - or better yet, can you get them anything? 

You don't have to donate to Max - but we'd be grateful if you did! But please take one day this month or year to look at one of these great organizations and maybe drop off some soap.  A toothbrush and toothpaste.  You have no idea how much something so small can help soooooooo much.

Thanks again, our friends - old and new, familiar and anonymous - for your amazing support and prayers.  We are so grateful to you!

With love and prayers,

Heather and Kelly  (and Max!)

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