Support Mandy's Neurosurgery

For: Mandy Cooper
Manchester, England, United Kingdom
Organizer: Matt Gray
of £60,000 goal.
Raised by 160 donors
12% Complete
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The Story


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Mandy dedicated her life to helping others, but in 2014 her health and independence deteriorated rapidly due to instability in her spine. This strong, selfless woman now needs your help to fund neurosurgery and get back to the life cruelly taken from her.

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Mandy was an active and outgoing person who would do anything for others. She had two jobs, both supporting local young people, and was studying towards a Master's Degree in Counselling. She hoped that this would allow her to further increase the positive impact she could have on the lives of people who were struggling in her community.

In October 2014 she started experiencing a number of symptoms including unrelenting, severe headaches and debilitating vertigo which prevent her from standing for any length of time, forcing her to give up her work and study. Her symptoms worsened over the next 18 months as she developed Postural Tachycardia Syndrome (POTS), a condition which causes her heart rate to more than double whenever she stands up, and problems regulating her blood pressure. She was diagnosed by a specialist Rheumatologist with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome (EDS), a rare and incurable genetic disorder which causes the production of faulty collagen in her body, making her joints and other connective tissue throughout her body too stretchy. After paying privately to be scanned in the UK's only upright MRI scanner it was also discovered that the stretchy ligaments in her neck were leaving her spine and skull unstable causing her vertebrae to dislocate and crush her brain stem and spinal cord causing irreversible damage and the daily possibility of paralysis and even death. 

Over the last two years Mandy has gone from a full and rewarding life to an lonely, isolating one, unable to leave the house or perform the normal tasks of daily living and forced to wear a neck brace. She suffers daily from:

  • Constant and severe neck, head, eye and shoulder pain caused by spinal instability called Atlantoaxial Instability and Craniocervical Instability
  • Heart arrhythmia, tachycardia and irregular blood pressure preventing her from standing
  • An array of neurological symptoms such as memory loss, tremors and numbness
  • Difficulty regulating body temperature and other autonomic bodily functions due to compression of her brain stem

In order to prevent further damage to her brain stem and try to correct some of the problems she already faces Mandy urgently needs surgery to fuse her skull and vertebrae together. This will stop her skull sliding too far and stabilise her vertebrae so they can no longer dislocate with every movement, both of which are currently compressing her brain stem. This is a very complicated surgery, which involves inserting screws through the bones which protect the spinal cord and brain and is made more complicated in Mandy due to her EDS. There are currently no EDS specialist neurosurgeons in the UK able to perform this operation.

Mandy's only hope is to raise £60,000 to travel to Barcelona to have the operation performed. This surgery is lifesaving, the longer she goes without it the more she will decline and the consequences are extreme as total brain stem compression can cause death. It is very important to raise the funds before other serious side effects such as paralysis set in as she will no longer be a candidate for surgery. 

The £60,000 raised will pay for:

  • The surgery
  • Pre-op scans
  • Hospital stay including two nights in ICU
  • Post-op scans
  • All required medications during the stay
  • Complications insurance
  • Specialised accommodation for the duration of post-op care

"Her clinical status with regards to the cervicomedullary syndrome is advanced, hereby the reason to stress on the need of having surgery as soon as possible. Actually, we think that there is no chance of improvement without surgery, and probably her condition will only decline as time goes on." Medical Report, Hospital Teknon, Barcelona

Your help will ensure that the rest of Mandy's life can be full of the things that make life worth living such as having much longed for children, spending time with friends and family and helping others.

We would love for you to be a part of Mandy's story and put a smile back onto her face.

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Some thoughts from Mandy's friends and family:

"It's just unfathomable that a fun loving, energetic, motivated and fully able bodied person can so suddenly be afflicted by these conditions that have effectively cut Mandy's life short. We always enjoyed the simple things - walking around museums and going on random trips out together whilst taking the stupidest photos! Now Mandy is confined to the house, she is a prisoner in her own home. Although she is in constant pain she still always smiles and makes the best out of every situation - I honestly don't know how she does it. The strength she has is amazing. I want my friend back."

Vanessa - Friend

"Mandy has always been someone I look up to, even now she's still amazing but she's suffering so much. It hurts that there's nothing anyone can do. I see her whenever I can and take my boys to see her too. She's always been someone who loves being outside, but now she's house bound and in pain all the time. Seeing how much she's lost and how she lives her life now is heartbreaking. I want her to be able to enjoy her nephews, be able to do fun stuff with them and I want her to be able to have her freedom back. Mandy is really good at looking happy for everyone else so that they feel good, but I want her to be genuinely happy again so please help and do what you can"

Tanya -Sister

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Fundraiser Updates

Posted on May 15, 2017

Posted on May 15, 2017

We've had a lot going on over the last couple of weeks; I (Matt) have had my last day at RetroFuzz, who also donated £500 💚 Ice House Hair Studio opened on a Sunday and donated all of their takings for the day totalling £600! Akinika in Preston had an office dress down day raising £155 and Auntie Mary has been selling cakes and managed to raise £160 (A lot of cake 🍰). We've also had some very generous anonymous donations recently which we're really thankful for.

Coming up over the next few weeks we have lots more events which you can see on the events page.

Thank you all for your ongoing support. There are a lot of people supporting Mandy by raising money and helping her to get the surgery she needs and we're grateful to every one of you 💕

Posted on March 15, 2017


Posted on March 15, 2017

One of my oldest, funniest and very loved friends threw a glittery unicorn party to celebrate Sydney Mardi Gras and raised a huge amount of money for my surgery. £1,135.04! This was a combination of Dan's incredibly kind hearted friends as well as a very generous donation from Dan himself. This is very special because the Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras is all about standing for equality which has an important place in Dan's heart, yet he still had space to make the day about raising money for me too. Thank you to each and every person who contributed, you're all wonderful 🦄💜🦄

Posted on March 10, 2017

Posted on March 10, 2017

£6,006! A huge thank you to everyone who has donated so far. I really try to thank each person individually by email through the YouCaring site but I am struggling to keep up with it as my symptoms are getting worse. I just need to say to everyone that if you haven't received an email from me I am very sorry, and I do appreciate your donation massively. You're all wonderful and I can't tell you how amazing it is to see so many of you wanting to help me.

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