Help Fund Kate Sholly's Healing and Recover

For: Kate Sholly & Tem Tarriktar
Nevada City, CA
Organizer: Debra Kiva
Help Fund Kate Sholly's Healing and Recover (Kate Sholly & Tem Tarriktar)
of $20,000 goal.
Raised by 184 donors
69% Complete

The Story


by Julia Kelliher

Kate Sholly is a gem of a person and in serious trouble. My name is Julia Kelliher and I have known Kate for twenty years and Debra Kiva and I are appealing to you for financial support.

Kate has a spark and passion that is hard to describe. We live in a small community in Northern California and Kate has touched numerous people with her intelligent wit, dark and light humor, and big-hearted tenderness toward those in any kind of pain or need. She and her husband, Tem, have been active in political and spiritual work, hosted gatherings and meetings, all while running a successful astrology magazine that touches lives across North America and Europe. Until recently, they had numerous pets and supported animal adoption. When you meet them, individually or together, they smile and speak in a way that leaves you feeling loved and accepted exactly as you are.


About 14 years ago, Kate contracted a MYSTERIOUS digestive disorder. She had numerous tests done for the most obvious gastrointestinal diseases, blockages, and cancer, as well as the mysterious diseases such as parasites, Lyme disease, heavy metal overload etc. She has suffered through all kinds of dietary adaptations, pain after eating, cold feet, neurological discomfort, and cramps in legs. Despite her best efforts to heal emotionally and physically, she has found no definitive diagnosis, prognosis or path to healing, other than some infection that is hard to diagnose.

Kate has been left to live with painful symptoms that would get worse and then better and then worse again. She has held her own for several years, working hard to do the right things to correct the problem. But six months ago, symptoms grew much, much worse. By December, she had not been able to eat more than broth on many days, and when she did eat, even broth, it causes ongoing gas that lasted for hours at a time and doesn’t let her sleep much at night. Her weight plummeted to a point where she could not sustain her normal functions any longer due to pain and weakness in limbs.  

In mid-January, Kate began a treatment called TPN (Total Parenteral Nutrition), a nutrition delivery system that bypasses the gut and delivers nutrition directly through a vein. TPN gives her a chance to actually be nourished, have her gut rest, and gain stamina and strength. She hopes to experience a more pain-free existence and to continue to look for a diagnosis and cure for whatever is going on. Kate is in her early sixties. She is not ready to die. She has a lot to live for, and she is currently aranging for additional help with pain management.


Kate and Tem are drawing on their retirement money to fund her healing, but more is needed. They need money to hire in-home care for Kate who is too weak to be alone, so that Tem can get much needed respite and get back to attending to their business. Most importantly they need money to keep Kate alive. 

TPN is expensive, even though her insurance covers part of it. When you donate to this campaign you are giving Kate another day to live, another day to gain enough strength to endure a stint at U.C. San Francisco (in order to get more and better help) and another day to bless us with her glorious, impish, and infinitely lovely presence.

Fundraiser Updates

Posted on February 16, 2018

Posted on February 16, 2018

Kate is continuing to improve bit by bit each day, as the TPN nutrition,  which she is hooked up to 16 hours every day, provides some stability  and support for her body. The medications are helping a lot with  symptoms (including reducing her intestinal gas), and she is sleeping  longer, although not very comfortably just yet. Kate’s doctor is trying  to get her in to see a GI motility expert at UCSF. The goal is to start  food by mouth again as soon as possible, and to get to the root cause of  the digestive dysfunction. Your support, financial and otherwise, has helped a lot, so thank you!

Posted on February 12, 2018

Posted on February 12, 2018

Thank you all so much for your generosity. We have passed the half-way to our goal mark. You are all held with much appreciation.

Posted on February 9, 2018

Posted on February 9, 2018

For all of you who have chosen to donate anonymously and therefore I can not properly thank....Thank you so very much for your generosity and care for Kate and Tem! We are very grateful! 

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