Gothard Family Adoption

For: Scott & Tanya Gothard
Organizer: Tanya Gothard
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The Story

God has impressed on our family’s heart to adopt an 11 year old boy named Yura. Yura is a unique individual who simply wants a family to share his life with. The purpose for the orphans being brought here to the U.S., is for us to share faith and life with them. We don’t have all the answers, we don’t know where the road will lead us, so we’re asking our friends and family to simply pray for us. Whatever God impresses on your heart. We believe God has His hand on this mission to bring Yura home to us and that He will supply all of our needs according to His riches of His Glory.(Philippians 4:19). Thank you for being a part of this with us and we look forward to the day you can finally meet our son Yura.

James 1:27
Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.

Fundraiser Updates

Posted on January 24, 2014 by Tanya Gothard
War within....


As many of you know or have seen post about the happenings in Ukraine. There is so much being said.So many families praying for this beautiful country where alot of us have children waiting.Our sons and daughters that we are trusting to be in God's care right now,under his protection, and in his timing put in our families. We have friends there who we have grown to love like family. This country really does need our prayers. 
 However, one of my biggest struggles is worry...I have to work on this ALOT. I worry and stress alot. Seeing and reading everything placed me into a panic mode. My greatest fear at this point in my life would be something going wrong and Yura not coming home. I pray for this child DAILY, several times,along with Tyler and Anna. I can honestly say God is teaching me so much through this journey and I have said it before..how much I am NOT in control. I can't control what is being done in Ukraine right now, I can pray,ask for prayer, share post,etc but at the end of the day GOD is in control and eithier I have to trust that or not. The current events were beginning to get the best of me,the devil was wiggling his way in my thoughts and causing so much doubt and fear ,I could not hardly function . I caught myself just constantly thinking and reading about everything that is going on...crying continously...I finally ,with a pep talk from Scott, had to just STOP. Stop reading, and refocus on who my trust lies in! I say it all the time and will continue to say it. God will win the battle, claim the victory,our children are coming home! We dont know when or the trials through the process but God will prevail and to God be all the glory! 
        In order to keep focused I have to stay in the word, pray,and I even have little reminders wrote on things in my house ,like "Whom Shall I Fear?" If God is for us, who can be against us? I just wanted to share what I read today that I needed...no one else..ME but just in case you are having the same struggles I wanted to share! This is a section from Francis Chan book Crazy Love:
 WORRY implies that we don't quite trust God is big enough,powerful enough,or loving enough to take care of what's happeningin our lives.
STRESS says that the things we are involved in are important enough to merit our impatience ,our lack of grace toward others,or our tight grip of control.
Basically, these two behaviors communicate that it's okay to sin and not trust God because the stuff in my life is somehow exceptional.Both worry and stress reek of arrogance.They declare our tendency to forget that we've been forgiven,that our lives here are brief,that we are headed to a place where we won't be lonely ,afriad,or hurt ever again,and that in the context of God's strength ,our problems are small,indeed...Francis Chan 

So to my friends and family ,please continue to pray for Ukraine and trusting God is going to do great things and work this out.Pray as we wait for May to go and bring Yura home.Protection over our adoption process. 

To my adopting families ,that are like a diffrent set of family :) . Don't even give the devil any credit! Keep praying, Keep looking up and keep trusting our children will be home soon!! 

Posted on December 23, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
God's Plan...God's Will...God's PERFECT timing


6 months today , is how long it has been since I have seen, touched, hugged,spent time with my oldest son who is waiting on his family in Ukraine. Life has been crazy,hard,busy,but we have been counting the days because we knew it was getting so close. Adoption Fee money is raised, PRAISE the Lord, He always provides, never let money be an excuse for opening your heart and home to a child that needs a loving home, Yura's room is ready, and we were told mid-late January we would be coming to get Yura. I have been spending so much time in prayer ,preparing my heart to leave my kids for 6-8 weeks ,and for the ones that know me, know it's only a call from God that would keep me from them this long. We were ready...ready and waiting for the date to GO!

BUT GOD had a diffrent plan...Friday we received a e-mail at 5:45 am , that caused my world to stop ...My facilitator informed me "I'm sorry to inform you ,but Yura will not be available for adoption until May" WHAT!?!?!?!? WHY!?!?! and the tears started flowing...and flowing and flowing..I could literally feel my heart breaking into. Holidays have been hard but I held on to the Hope I would see him soon,but now 5 more months of waiting....5 MONTHS...I first met Yura in May ,now it will be a year before we go to bring him back. 

After all the breakdowns, and even during them I clinged to God I put this in your hands from the begining , you know best. You can see what I can not and you have paved the way. I can honestly say, during it all ,I have had a peace within. So I will trust and wait ,and focus on the positives! See it will be late May when we go, soooo blessing #1 my kids can travel with us! Maybe God knew my heart could not take a 6-8 week seperation. YES we will be back to the fundraising road to raise their ticket money. Tickets are about 1500.00 per person. We will give you all time to recover from the holidays BUT if you are our friend,our family ,we need your help. We have 5 months to raise the extra money we need help. 

Blessing #2...We have been given permission to suprise Yura on his birthday with a visit. January 7 is his 12th birthday and Ukraines Chirstmas so we will get to have both of these special occasions with him! We are excited and thrilled!!! Please be in prayer as we travel, we will depart from Atlanta Jan. 4 and head to see our son after 6 months. Please pray we choose the right words to say when we have to explain it will be another 5 months and peace and understanding for Yura! We are so happy for this oppurtunity! 


Thanks to all who have shown your love and support through this journey..until you travel it..you have no idea how hard the road is. We keep peace in knowing this is all God's plan! Through the good and the bad ,we give God all the glory and praise and we could not do it without him carrying us through! Praise You In The Storm!!



Habakkuk 2:3 Message Version

And then God answered :" Write This."
Write what you see
Write it out in big block letters
So that it can be read on the run.

This vision-message is a witness
pointing to what's coming.
It aches for the coming-it can hardly wait!
And it doesn't lie.
If it seems slow in coming,wait.
It's on its way.It will come right on time!

Posted on December 20, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
Gothard Family Adoption is asking for all you prayer warriors to please say a prayer for us. We have received some very unexpected news early this morning and just seeking God's will,peace and understanding. Waiting on further info but please pray continously as we await our next steps! Even among the storms ,GOD is at work! Thanks! 

Posted on September 27, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
Matthew 19: 14 
       Jesus said." Let the little children come to me ,and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." 


Cry of a child!

It has been awhile since we have posted and update, and usually all my updates are asking you to pray about what you can give to help. Although we have a way to go and really a short amount of time , all I ask of you today is prayer! For the past 4-5 weeks we have been so blessed to have our good friends the Davison's at the orphanage with Yura. We have been able to know what he does daily, we have got to Skype him , talk to him, see pic and videos. Huge Blessing to this mom ,who likes to know what her kids are doing. It has helped and I have had no worries about "What is he doing today?" "Is he happy or sad" "Is he sick or hurt in anyway?" NONE of that, because we were in touch and he was being loved and cared for by Shannon and Chris. We are blessed.
               Yura , I have learned has a very tender heart(like his mom) As this morning ,the Davison's stay at his orphanage came to a close,we all knew this would be a hard day but I didnt expect to see Yura so upset. It took me back to the days before he left in June. Tears were shed, Scott and I hearts broke into a million pieces! All we could keep saying was "We love you!" "We are coming!!" . In repsonse ,as usual, he wanted to know WHEN....I cringe everytime I hear those words because I want to come now! I want to give him a set answer but I can't. I want to be there to hug him and wipe away his tears. I want to be in control BUT I'm not. I'm learning alot through this process . Most of all , how much Im not in control and I have no control over anything ! but someone greater does , GOD, I have complete peace when I stop and remind myself of this. As much as I love my kids and want to make them happy , GOD loves them more and wants them to have a happy life! I know God saw Yura's tears today. I know God heard his cries and God wants Yura to turn to him because in God and God alone is where he can find the peace he needs ,the hope of knowing we will be together soon! 

During our talk,as hard as it was to see him so upset. I had to regroup and use those moments to tell him ,Pray,when you lay down at night PRAY to Jesus about what you want. We had told Yura , it would probably be 12 or so weeks before we are there,because today the answer "soon" wasnt enough! He said 'No" you will be here in 8 weeks. OK, then thats what we will pray for, I told him we would pray everyday for  8 weeks! Yura also said he would do the same. Now, looking at timelines , this looks impossible but with GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE! I ask you today ,to pray for a quickened process! To pray for the 8 weeks Yura waits for. If its God's will, it will be done. God loves our children way more than we do....I know he hears every childs prayer! Yura is ready to come home, I have complete faith this prayer will be answered soon! Please take time to pray for specifically for a quick process with no bumps in the way, and peace and understanding for Yura as he waits! 

Posted on August 22, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
Nothing but fundraisers,planning ,paperwork.......and then the moments you get to talk to your child so far away....its all worth it!!!



It has been several weeks since I posted but the days have flown by! I wanted to let you know where we are and whats been going on in the Gothard Adoption world! Since Yura has left on June 23, we have been working as hard and as fast as we could to get him home as soon as we possibly can! We have had several fundraisers and several people to just give . I have been so blown away by the support!! I dont know whyI am so suprised , because I should know by now how AWESOME and AMAZING our GOD is!!!! From day one I have prayed that God would prepare the hearts of his people to give as they have been blessed. I am so thankful to the ones that have  answered that calling to give and I know you will be double blessed!!! With 2 Lemonade Stands , The Miss Freedom Pageant, Selling baked goods, Boston Butt Tickets (which is ongoing for one more day if you are intrested) ,and just peoples generosity we are at right over 7,000!!!!! Which is AWESOME! We realize we still have a ways to go to get to the goal of 25K but I have faith (even though I catch myself being doubtful) we will have our money! 

I ask that you pray about our adoption and if you are one of the ones that could help us bring Yura home! I am already blessed with two other beautiful children Tyler and Anna ,and people think 25k is alot to adopt a child,but I have to ask is there any amount of money you wouldnt pay to save your child? Although , this road is hard ,very emotional,very stressful  I catch myself thinking it doesnt compare to the sacrifice GOD gave for us to have eternal life with him, The sacrifice HE gave for his children!!!   So I can do this and with GOD helping me through each day I will have my moment soon of  being with Yura again! Oh, what a day that will be! My prayer through this all is that GOD receives all the praise and glory for this amazing journey we are on. I pray that each of you realize ,not only in Ukraine but all over the world,right here in our own community there are "the least of these" we are called to care for ,that need to be shown a Christ like love . Show that Love ,Spread that Love! 

Today, my son Yura, wrote to me saying " Im sad and crying ,but I pray every day for you!"  Yes, tears started but to know he is praying for us ,as much as we are him its a wonderful feeling...he makes me so proud already to be his mother. Please continue to pray for our journey . 

If you would like to help we have several upcoming events :

1) Boston Butt Sales ! Ready in time for labor day ! Sales end tomorrow !!!!! 
2) South Hill Designs- I am now selling these unique ,special necklaces that are a great gift ! Please check out my facebook page at South Hill Designs-Tanya Gothard for more info!!
3) We will be selling AL and AU jewelry and other items at Swedish Festival on Oct 12.
4) We will be holding a community wide Fall Festival on Oct 19 at Jemison City Park with inflatables, hayrides,food,music and MUCH more!!
5) Raffling off 2 tickets to an Alabama game.
6) 5K Fun Run sometime in November!!
7) Adoption Tshirts coming soon!!!

We are busy!!!! We appreciate all your support and prayers!! God Bless each of you!!!!

Posted on July 19, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
Unspeakable Joy!

Well today was a very emotional one. I contacted Tanya to see how her day was going, and she told me she could barely speak because she'd been crying all morning. I asked her what was it, she said there is a video from Jennifer Taylor (friend from Bridges of Faith), and that she had saw Yura and recorded a video from him. I immediately logged on and the video loaded. Yura says very clearly in english.."I miss you.....Tanya, Scott, Tyler, Anna..I love you...Bye!". This was awesome!! I can't explain it other than I guess you'd have to be in our shoes. I never fully understood how others who are in this process could love another person like they do their own child so quickly, let alone step out of their comfort zone and throw caution to the wind and I never understood how they felt in their heart, the longing to have the child they were adopting here so much...until now. God is revealing to me through this that He already knows the outcome and that all the days were written for me and my family, before even one of them came to be. (Psalm 139:16) I absolutely cannot wait until the day comes where Yura is home with us. I cannot wait to be his daddy. To God be all the Glory!

Posted on July 13, 2013 by Tanya Gothard

GET YOUR LEMONADE!!


Our first fundraiser was a success today!! God is amazing and it's  him that worked through each and every donation we were given today! To God be all the glory!!! I am amazed at what we received at a lemonade stand today,and so thankful!!!! Yura is blessed already to be loved by each of you so much to give finacially and just to be there to help us thru the journey!!! We spoke to Yura briefly this morning, the kids wanted to talk to their brother! Yura was napping but we did get in our " I love you's" Thank you all again for helping us bring Yura home! We could not do it without you!!!


Posted on July 12, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
There may be pain in the night......but JOY comes in the morning!!!


This week has been challenging and I know many more are ahead. Overwhelmed ,tired and stressed. Planning and promoting so many fundraisers is a challange in itself! Trying to keep them all straight and hoping for the best results.Our medicals we had done ,I have to go have the papers re-done because they forgot to notorize one of the papers....everything has to be done just right or they will reject our papers,and we DONT want that to happen and cause a longer delay! I find myself exhausted by bedtime,emotionally and physically! I find myself sometimes wanting to  just take a break from it all!!!! BUT a break is another day lost without Yura! Its like I can hear a whisper from God saying ,keep moving,you can do this,I am with you every step! I went to bed last night,probably the most stressed I've ever been in awhile!

I get up this morning , and I got ready as fast as I could because I wanted to talk to Yura before I got started with my day! I woke up missing him more than usual this morning. As the phone rings,Im praying  , "Just please let him answer!!!"  I hear "Hello" but it wasn't Yura's voice....it was Dima! For the ones of you that were at Bridgestone and met the kids,you know we had ,especially Scott ,a bond with Dima. Dima had me laughing before 7:00 this morning. These kids are awesome! Scott and I talked and laughed with Dima and then Dima in return helped us talk with Yura ,helped us translate some.

Yura's main question today was "When are you coming for me?" "When are you getting on the plane for Ukraine?" .....Hearing that,gives me the strength I need to keep pushing,keep going! Yura's favorite word when he was here in the US was "tomorrow?" He always wanted to make sure I was coming back....not much has changed:) As he kept asking "tomorrow?" , The answer to his question is not tomorrow but soon! And each day that passes is another day closer and soon my answer to his "tomorrow" will be YES ,tomorrow!!!

I can't thank everyone enough for their support and generosity! Please continue to pray for no speed bumps in the process, for Yura as he waits for his tomorrow,and for God to prepare the hearts of those who are meant to give. God Bless you all!!!

Tanya
James 1:27

Posted on July 9, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
Today...Today has been a great day! We heard from Yura! My morning began with hearing a sweet voice miles and miles away telling me " I miss you " I love you" Yura spoke with Anna,I love to here them talk and laugh with each other. Tyler was still sound asleep this morning but Yura said several times "Tyler...I love you" He didnt get to speak to Tyler but had to make sure he knew he loved him also. I love Yura's heart...after all he has been through..he can still love. Talking to Scott...his dad...something he has never had but does now :)He assured me he was ok . If you know me well...you know Im a worry wart when it comes to my kids! Worrying is my greatest sin!! My struggle....but Im learning so much through this process what Faith is all about!! Faith is believing and KNOWING God has his hand on Yura and is taking better care of him than I ever could! At the same time,keeping our family strong through this emotional ride! Believe me the Devil has tried to place doubt in my mind, tell me I will never raise this money,the guilt of leaving my kids for weeks at a time, I know God brought me to this and will bring me and my family through this!! Pictures of Yura,the braclet he placed on my arm, and today hearing his voice makes me push harder!!!
Pushing forward consist of planning SEVERAL fundraisers tonight!! Please be in prayer for each of them and dates will be annouced as they are finalized. For know we will be having the Lemonade Stand Saturday from 8am-11am,this is Tyler and Anna's contribution and effort toward bringing their brother home!!! We will be selling Boston Butt tickets soon for 30.00 each. They will be ready to pick up and have for Labor Day weekend!! Many Many other things are still to come and being finalized. I will keep you updated !! Again please be in prayer for each one and God bless you for your prayers and support in this journey. Lots of Love,Tanya       James 1:27



Posted on July 8, 2013 by Tanya Gothard
ONE BUSY WEEK!!!

Last week Scott and I took what we called a "vacation" week....except we went NOWHERE. Well, we did but it consist of Dr office for medicals, Post Office for Passports,picking up referrals sitting here filling out countless forms, writing autobiographies , planning fundraisers,etc....but every step we make is one step closer to bringing Yura home!! We have so far been blessed in so many ways! We had someone unknown pay for our home study,HUGE blessing!! We have received $1,695.00 so far towards our goal!!! Thats awesome! Although we have a long way to go , I have complete faith GOD will provide every dollar we need when we need it!! Please continue to pray for our family, for an easy (as easy it can be) road with all the paperwork,for Yura, and to GOD be all the glory!!!

On a side note! I received Yura's phone number today and for the first time since he left I will get to call him tomorrow!!! Pray he answers!!!! Thank you all for supporting us on our journey! Our first fundraiser will be this Saturday, Tyler and Anna will be setting up a lemonade stand at the Jemison Piggly Wiggly from 8am-11am. Come have a cup!!

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